Managing Family/Work Relationships

The money lender/collecting agent is threatening to call my employer. What do I do?

My family think that I am making so much money in Hong Kong and I don’t know how to manage their expectations.

I feel guilty being away from my children but how do I tell them I can’t afford to send them money/gifts all the time?

I am so worried about my finances and I can’t focus on my work. How can I tell my employer and family?